Essays

Looking for your book in a bookstore

Or: how to hurt your own feelings

Apr 30 •

On "good enough" writing

And fires and no sleep

Mar 30 •

How long does it take to feel at home in a new city?

A look back at 4 years in LA

Aug 7, 2024 •

On adult friendships

And what happens after a friend breakup

Jul 18, 2024 •

When a writer can't write

On "mommy wrist" and giving up journaling

Feb 9, 2024 •

My new year's ritual

& reflections on two years of this newsletter

Jan 1, 2024 •

The age of anxiety is nothing new

So let's stop judging young girls who are struggling

Sep 8, 2023 •

Should our partners weigh in on our bodies?

Why I'm anti body commentary in my marriage

Jul 21, 2023 •

My emotional hangover

After oversharing online.

Apr 4, 2023 •

Pub Month: Week 2

Live from New York

Jan 17, 2023 •

For my book and also Taylor Swift's new album.

Oct 21, 2022 •

Reflecting on 1 year of marriage

The highs, lows, and in betweens.

Oct 7, 2022 •

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